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\"\"<\/a>I have a shirt with that phrase on it and it couldn\u2019t be more appropriate for what has transpired in my world in the last week.<\/p>\n

But let\u2019s back up and talk a little bit about said bullshit, yes?<\/p>\n

I LOVE, I mean LOVE, when my friends do well and succeed. It\u2019s a win for me when they do because I like and care about them AND selfishly, I want to surround myself with people who do well.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not so with all people.<\/p>\n

Recently, it\u2019s come to my attention that some of my hard earned gains are not seen that same way but perhaps, as threats or competition.<\/p>\n

Well, that hurts me.<\/p>\n

My mother , yes Mama Sandra, always taught her kids to care and be happy for others\u2019 successes and I grew up thinking that\u2019s the way everyone acted.<\/p>\n

Not so.<\/p>\n

Perhaps, I\u2019m naive in thinking that way BUT I like that my mind set is pretty positive ( ok, there was that one time when someone got the good parking spot from me.)<\/p>\n

Like I said, this hurt me and it weighed heavy on my mind for a few days. After just getting it off my chest with my wife and one of my best friends, I let it go. Like poof, no more energy spent on it. And more importantly, I went back to focusing on the good things, th and goals I want to achieve and the life I\u2019m creating.<\/p>\n

AND, guess what?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been more productive this week than ever, I received a couple really good messages regarding things I\u2019ve been working on, my business is starting to take off from both and engagement and exposure standpoint AND I go an offer from a really cool startup that \u201cI can\u2019t refuse!\u201d<\/p>\n

Once I let go of those negative feelings and redirected to the positive, my week exploded!<\/p>\n

Yes, I am one of those people who believe in energy and the power of attraction. BUT, I\u2019m also one of those people who likes proof.<\/p>\n

This week I got it BIG TIME!<\/p>\n

Listen, be open, do NOT wallow in the negative- it just doesn\u2019t serve you at all. Think about what you want to appear in your life and then take action over and over and over again.<\/p>\n

This is what I call SMALL MAGIC and the formula is:
\n(awareness + action) x habit<\/p>\n

Do it. Take just one thing and use this formula and you\u2019ll get it. I\u2019m proof.<\/p>\n

So, go out and transcend the bullshit and be magical!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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